3 Tips On How To Begin Dealing with Anxiety?
Posted by Sylvia on March 24th, 2009
The root of anxiety often has an obvious source. Dealing with anxiety means finding that root cause and addressing it directly rather than trying to run from your attacks. Running will make them worse, whereas confronting them will put the power back in your hands.
Here are three tips on how to begin dealing with anxiety.
1. The instant you feel anxiety coming on, take steps to combat it. Trying to ignore it won’t make it go away anytime soon. Do expect the anxiety to stop, but it will happen faster if you are prepared to act. Without your permission, your subconscious mind will build on your fears below your level of awareness. This is what makes anxiety attacks such a surprising event.
2. Take a quick evaluation of what just happened and see if you can identify the thought or action that triggered the anxiety attack. If you do this every time, eventually you will start to see a pattern and get clues into the specific things that trigger your anxiety. It might be a fleeting thought about how vulnerable you feel. For instance, if you don’t feel safe in an elevator, your body’s natural response is to panic to save itself. It doesn’t necessarily have to be anything huge or highly significant. Some of the slightest things can cause anxiety, such as concern that you spent $300 on a new shirt when you know you can’t really afford it.
3. Tackle the event head on and put it into perspective. Ask yourself exactly what is so bad about your “careless spending”. Is it worth worrying about at this point? What’s the point of feeling guilty? Didn’t you deserve that little treat? Keep in mind that if you become too regretful, you can just return the shirt.
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